Artists, Self-Promotion and Social Media
We all value humility and modesty as no one likes a braggart but prefers humble people. However, these qualities can be overestimated or undervalued. Similarly, sharing one’s accomplishment or achievement, can be misunderstood and misjudged by others who are not as accomplished. Thus, speaking about one’s accomplishment might cause flame of jealously in some people or make them feel uncomfortable. Should such negative attributes discourage us from being authentic or from expressing who we are and what we do? In general, becoming overly modest, minimizing one’s achievements can be a problematic issue when having a promotion is a must or when applying for a job. Many artists are shying away from talking about their artwork which affect their personal life as well mis-evaluate their artwork. Result is, they lose confidence in what they do and leads to losing opportunities. If you don't share your accomplishments with your friends and family, how would they celebrate alongside with you or support you? What family and friends are for? And if you don’t share your accomplishment publicly, how could you make living when can’t afford high cost of marketing?
There is difference between being authentic and self-praise. When artists stick to self-disclosure, there is good morality which should be appreciated. Being proud of what we do is far from being braggers, boasters or narcissists. There is also, difference between rubbing certain things in a friend's face and sharing with them about all the things we've done and could do.
Who of us doesn’t feel good when accomplishes something? Studies by Harvard Business School show that “humble-bragging will make you sound insincere. If you want to make a good impression, don't try to disguise self-promotion as a complaint. People will see right through it. It's better to directly communicate your accomplishments.”
Some envious people hate seeing success, because it puts them in a different category. They will do anything to tear down your accomplishment and disregard your credentials. What artists should do? Before sharing your successful stories, consider why you want to advertise your accomplishments. If you're seeking a job, sales, promotion or you simply want others to celebrate along with you then, publicize your accomplishments. This will work well for you and for others who are interested in what you do. If however, you're aiming to gain admiration so you can feel better about yourself, or to make others look inferior, don't share. When you're comfortable with who you are and what you've achieved, you'll feel worthy of your success regardless of the critical opinions. Being proud of your accomplishments is a positive thing, and it doesn’t make you a bragger. It’s a normal and a natural human feeling and ONLY normal people with sense of self-esteem would love to hear or read stories of successful people. Such stories can be inspiring and encouraging on different levels. And as you appreciate receiving compliments on your success, recognize others as well and give credit where it's due.
Thanks to Social media that made it possible for artists to make living somehow.
©Mona Youssef
